A small coin and a big smile

I am a person who loves travelling, going out for shopping,sightseeing etc etc...I love to buy quality items and don't worry about the money spent in buying quality items...of course please do not mistake me for a person who spends money like water...I only buy what is necessary ....I love that.
On a fine day I decided to go to a temple...Anjaneyar temple which is near our house....There I saw a small girl selling flowers.She wanted me to buy some flowers from her which I did promptly.She knew me as I went to the temple often.As the temple was to close in a few minutes,I told her that I will pay her when I return from the temple.She nodded...After a few minutes I returned,only to find that I had only 2Rupees 50 paise instead of 5 Rs....she did not have change for Rs 100.So I told her that I will get change from a nearby shop...She was very nervous b'coz her periamma/chitti whoever it was will ask her.I was very irritated at first as she was very jittery....was not sure whether I would give her the remainig 2.50p....but later realised that those 2Rs 50 paise meant a lot to her....
I was of the opinion that 100's,and 500's have lost their value till I saw this girl whose eyes glittered when I gave her 3 Rs instead of 2.50p.

NO?

Have you thought about this?How many of us can say "No" without feeling guilty.I had not given it a thought until I came across a book having a title similar to this one.
We often are eager to please people and in this process we often answer in the affirmative.We are afraid of the unfriendly stares that we may have to face if we answer in the negative....We hardly realize that we slowly lose our individuality.
Having left my job recently gave me lot of time to analyze my positive and negative points.That was when I came across this negative trait of mine.Even though it is difficult to change oneself at a not so young age ,it is better late than never.
Kabhi haan,Kabhi naaa.....does it look like a karan johar title:)